why would one drag patner to court over sex refusal

Okay. Now, at what point do you take your spouse to court for refusing to sleep with you? How does that conversation even begin? And even if you DID take them to court, would you really want to be in bed with someone who’s only there via court order? Wouldn’t that take some of the enjoyment away?

Also, where’s your pride? Wouldn’t it be just a *little bit* embarrassing explaining to a judge, lawyers, and witnesses that you’ve gathered them all in that serious-looking courtroom because you’re not getting any? Wouldn’t it be easier to bribe, charm, or entice your spouse into bed with gifts, cash, or porn?
But then again, maybe it’s just me. I don’t see anyone else complaining or even remarking over that particular sentence. Maybe for the rest of the population, it’s perfectly okay to get a court order that demands marital sex. After all, wasn’t that the reasoning behind the Mututho Law

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never say “rape” in presence of a lady

Words are powerful. Words evoke emotion. They take you to a time or place, they jog your memory, they bring back sights, smells, tastes. What if a word that brought back a bad memory, a traumatic experience, was tossed around casually? What if nearly everywhere you went, you heard this word? And you just couldn’t escape it

230 high school girls in Nigeria were kidnapped by Boko Haram. Depending on what you read, some escaped, some were forcefully married, some were taken across the border, and some … well … we don’t know what happened to them. What is STILL happening to them. And their families are driving themselves crazy thinking about it, wondering about it, imagining what is being done to these girls.

. So it’s not just their bodies being broken. Their minds are being broken too. In addition to what is being done to them, they are questioning where their God is, where their government is, why they ever bothered going to school.

You see, rape ISN’T just a word. It’s a weapon. And every time someone uses it lightly, it evokes the entire experience. When a woman is walking in a wide street in broad daylight, and a man cat-calls her, and she ignores him, and he causally says how he will rape her, it isn’t just a word. It’s a memory of the torture she went through. And it’s enough to take her out of that bright street and into the hell that was her rape. She may be standing there safe and sound, but in her mind, she’s back in the worst place and time of her life.

Diasporadical

hair wahala on relationship

Interview most random man out there, they will tell you their dream woman is hairless. They may not say it directly to you but this day and age, the idea of a hairy woman is unthinkable. It’s a deal breaker to most people and the talk of the crowd if a celebrity has hairy legs. Why are we so obsessed with being smooth? Why are women told to stop their hair from growing in order to look attractive and appealing? Does the sight of a sexy body with hair upset the eyesight so much?

People will tell you it’s because we have evolved from cavemen and do not need to allow so much hair grow. I would accept this theory of course, if only the same could be said for men. Men are allowed to keep all the underarm hair, pubic hair, leg hair and etc they want to keep. Now when I say allowed, I mean they are not crucified if they are hairy as much as women are, not that every culture supports men looking like fur balls. So women are struggling and getting ingrown hairs from shaving, waxing, teasing and plucking to remain smooth while men are allowed to be as hairy as they please? I call BULLSHIT.

when your boyfriend or spouse starts suggesting you shave or wax while he himself is hairy, please do call BULLSHIT. He who has never had their balls wax cannot, under any circumstance dare speak of his lady having her vagina waxed. That shit is painful!
Baby girls, if he wants you to be a certain way, he should try to be that way as well. Either you are both hairless or both with hair, he should pick one. Equality may still be down the road, but gosh darnit we will get there steps at a time.

women killing themselves to be hairless while men relax and grow all the hair they want. Ladies, if you are happy keeping up the waxing appointments for him, that’s fine. If you are unhappy however and want to grow it out, feel free. Thou shalt not let a man with hairy balls and pits tell you where to shave. Never.

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Big Rewards For Political Prostitution In Nigeria

Well saaid

Thy Glory O' Nigeria..!

By Adeola Aderounmu

The wave of swapping political allegiance in Nigeria is out of this world. There is no need to assign a Guinness book of world record to it. It is super unique and there are just no other countries as contestants.

Last year five governors (s)elected on the platform of the PDP in Nigeria left their party and joined the APC. What would have been more honourable and sensible was to denounce the mandate they stole through the PDP. They kept their mandates while seeking desperate means of self-preservations. It’s purely unethical and somehow also a criminal act. People who rob Peter to pay Paul will always be diabolical.

Rotimi Amaechi of Rivers has been leading the pack of aggrieved governors and he is still at loggerhead with Mr. and Mrs Jonathan on several River state and national issues. When you read or hear about some of his…

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Dictionary.comdefines a scientist as:
“an expert in science, especially one of the physical or natural sciences.”

meaning ;
both students and experts of science

KEYWORD:EXPERTISE

MEANING: A science student is not a scientist.
QUESTION;WHAT MAKES ONE AN EXPERT? BEING A PROF?

Einsten never studied science but he contributed to science.does that make him a scientist

Popular Technology cites Webster’sdefinition of a Scientist

:
“a person who is trained in a science and whose job involves doing scientific research or solving scientific problems”

KEYWORDS;TRAINING AND JOB
Question; is Goodluck Jonathan a scientist since his job excludes scientific research?

Oxford Dictionarydefines a scientist as:

“A person who is studying or has expert knowledge of one or more of the natural or physical sciences”
wickipedia:

“A scientist, in a broad sense, is one engaging in a systematic activity to acquire knowledge. In a more restricted sense, a scientist is an individual who uses the scientific method.

Meaning;needs no scientific training or expertise

what makes one a scientist
is it

having a degree in Biology or Physics or Chemistry…etc…? Or does it simply say you have the credentials to get a job in that field of science?

JOB DESCRIPTION

LEVEL OF CONTRIBUTION TO SCIENCE?

Dictionary.comdefines a scientist as:
“an expert in science, especially one of the physical or natural sciences.”

meaning ;
both students and experts of science

KEYWORD:EXPERTISE

MEANING: A science student is not a scientist.
QUESTION;WHAT MAKES ONE AN EXPERT? BEING A PROF?

Einsten never studied science but he contributed to science.does that make him a scientist

Popular Technology cites Webster’sdefinition of a Scientist

:
“a person who is trained in a science and whose job involves doing scientific research or solving scientific problems”

KEYWORDS;TRAINING AND JOB
Question; is Goodluck Jonathan a scientist since his job excludes scientific research?

Oxford Dictionarydefines a scientist as:

“A person who is studying or has expert knowledge of one or more of the natural or physical sciences”
wickipedia:

“A scientist, in a broad sense, is one engaging in a systematic activity to acquire knowledge. In a more restricted sense, a scientist is an individual who uses the scientific method.

Meaning;needs no scientific training or expertise

what makes one a scientist
is it

having a degree in Biology or Physics or Chemistry…etc…? Or does it simply say you have the credentials to get a job in that field of science?

JOB DESCRIPTION

LEVEL OF CONTRIBUTION TO SCIENCE?

priests and pastors

Ultimate Differences Between A Christian & A Catholic priest

priest are more learned .an average priest spends 4 years readin philosophy ,4 years reading theology . Eight years b4 being a priest.
A pastor dont spends less than a year in a bible school.

a priest speaks a minimum of 4 languages. 2 foreign and 2 nigerian.excluding english and native language.

A pastor speak only pidgen + native.

a priest prays gently,quietly,. A pastor shouts angrily

a priest exorcism of a demon posessed child is more authoritative with sequential proces. A pastor yels and shout .
A priest goes to needy african countries, in war ,famine. To share d word of God. A pastor goes to Usa, england and other rich nation

a priest dont own major property.no persnal car, house,land, jet etc. Only clothes and shoes. Their property belong to d church.

Pastor own property

wen a nigerian priest dies in lets say congo. He is burid there.

Priest are more logical in arguement than priest.if u doubt, ask an atheist

priest have taken an oath never to be married. How many pastor can stay a year without s..e..x. .even wen their wife die, they remarry within a year.

Aceptd, some priest indulge in secret sex,

conclusion, it is not easy to be a priest. It is much easier to be a pastor.