saying no to charity rganisations

I  happened to be an  active member of a charity organisation in my days in tertiary institution. I was led there by

CURIOSITY
AND
SYMPATHY FOR THE NEEDY

Having played an active role in their activitiies, i must say my expectation was cutshort

1)EMPHASISE ON MONEY
we were instructed to ask for money instead of materials.

2)mismanagement of fund;
these charitable organisation dont know how to manage your money.

3)money dont get to the needy; instead it is used in purchasing aircondition , vehicles, fan etc for comfort and administration. of charitable organisation managers

4)makes no difference;
An orphanage home with 100,000 naira and 50 inmates would never investing that amount on 3orphans education or setting them up with sewing machine to begin tailoring.
Its betterto change 3 persons life

charitable organisation hardly make inmates financially stable. They prefer to keep giving paracetamol for severe headache.

ACCOUNTABILITY;
Since the fund is derived from public, public needs details on how  the fund is being spent.they should issue financial report.

I have chosen not to have any dealing with them i ‘d rather give directly to needy without any middleman.

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an accused pastor

WHEN A CHURCH PASTOR IS ACCUSED OF SCANDAL,WHAT SHOULD CHURCH MEMBERS DO?

Should they do noting about it even if the evidence is clear since bible say touch not my annoited…

should they do nothing and leave the case to God to act. IF A PASTOR/PRIEST errs, pray for him, let God judge,never hurt a priest???

Should they be indifrent? It doesnt concern them.pastor personal life is no body buisnes

should they remain loyal . See it as devil plan to disrupt church aim of wining soul to christ.

Report the case??? If u can report a thief, a rapist, ? Why dont u report a pastor who should know better

Confront him?? Tel him his crime personaly, if posible present the evid ence to him. Hear his defence .

a letter to lawyers

In my early days, I was asked my dream caeeer, i had immediately replied ” lawyer”. My dad immediately told me that “all lawyers are liars”.that statement immedtately demorolised me.

Few years later, my elder cousin came home informing us of his intention to marry a lawyer. He was immediately told to think twice about it. Everyone present began narrating their ordeals with lawyers.

i was very young then.i was really brainwashed against doing anything with lawyers. I viewed them as a proffesional liars paid to lie.

as i grow older, my belief faded gradually.i now belive that that some honest lawyers truely exist. However, they are few. The multitude liars tend to overshadow them. The legal system is itself corrupt.

What then diffrentiaates an honest lawyer from the lying lawyers?

The legal system has made it such that the more difficult a case tends to be, the more money u tend to make as a lawyer. The initial belief that lawyers defend the innocent is really fading. Do lawyers still do that?
Modern lawyers defend who approaches them, who is ready to foot the bill irrespective of the truth

The dishonet lawyers lack conscience. He uses his lying tongue to bend the truth and strech the lies in convincing the court
the dishonest lawyer defends the case of a known persistent murderer and sleeps peacefully afterward
the dishonest lawyer is ready to call a white spade “black” .
he is willing to defend a criminal today and to accuse the innocent the next day.
he does little or nothing while charging the client exhorbidant fees.raping the client of thousand and knocking of 2%
he hardly advices his client to settle out of court knowing it is of no benefit to him.even if the client has 5% chance of winning the case. He would rather continue delaying the case since he stands to gain from “sitting fee”.

The irony of it all is that such persons who consider their pocket first before their conscience or the client scale through the legal profession.hardened criminals, curropt goverment officials and rich politician patronise them and pay them . .They win the case even though the entire court know they ought to loose. In most cases, the judge is helpless as he is trained to judge by reason and not by emotions.

crying football fans

When i was a little boy i used to cry whenever super eagles lost a game …..i still remember victor ikbeba penalty against cameroon……

but as Ive grown up ive stopped crying…mainly because at one point, u got used to super eagles playing badly and loosing and didnt want to suffer unnessasary hypertention

the last time i cried was when iniesta scored that late goal against chelsea that kept the blues out of champions league goal.

Ghana’s gyan penalty miss almost made me cry.

I doubt if any worldcup match would make me feel bad

God without Joke

I am just wandering. Does God have a sence of humour at all or is he always serious minded.

Have searched through the bible but yet to see him tell a Joke.he only laaughed at man stupidity at times.

Belive it or not,a sligght humour is important in communication. The bible which cutacross all part of life seems to neglect this important attribute -humour.

Imagine having a dad who kept shouting at you and commanding you without making you laugh for once.how do you feel?like a slave or a friend or a son.

Or did God actually told humour but we were to serious minded to laugh .Can someone please point out a joke in the bible,

unmarried, resolving marrige dispute

I recieve lots of critism from protestants who insist priests have no buisness resolving marital issues since they are unmarried. This article aims at explaining certain facts

WHAT QUALIFIES ONE TO TEACH?

knowledge qualifies one to teach Not neccesarily marital experience.a 35 year old boy can be a profesor as long as it is proven he is knowledgeable in that field..

MUST KNOWLEDGE ARISE OUT OF PERSONAL EXPERIENCE?

no. A wise man must not commit a mistake to learn. He learns from others experience.

Having made the clarification? Let me go further to explain this

ARE PRIESTS KNOWLEDGEABLE

yes. Priests didnt fall from sky.they have family.they learn from their parents. Secondly, priests are trained. They undergo theoritical training on family issues. They are lectured on marriage counsellin by married parents with over 20 years marital experience..in some cases,priest are made to live with families.

DOES PERSONAL EXPERIENCE REALY MATTER?

if yes,
are soccer referees ex players?
Must judges be profMust judges be criminal before they can convict thieves? must doctors suffer from all ailment before diagnosing them? having pointed out these, let me add that it takes one in a neutral position to give a candid opinion on an issue. a married person tends to be biased. an unmarried person is not biased. let me leave you all with this quote

ONE WHO CANT TEACHES

ONE WHO TEACHES CANT

4 Reasons Why Its Better To Marry A Female Teacher

4 Reasons Why Its Better To Marry A Female Teacher

of all professions,teachers make better wife.my reasons are:

Teachers arebetter communicators communication is an essential tip for any relationship. Teachers communicate well with students,fellow teachers and parents.their ability to teach students same thing in many ways makes them able to communicate with different persons

THE KIDS ACADEMICS IS ASSURED………………HAVE you noticed that teachers children do well academically.?this is because teachers extend their job to the home.she asks them to home work and guides them in solving it.your kids can attend same school with their mum

TEACHERS ARE PATIENT……………………………….Agood teacher spendslonger time teaching one topic to slow learners are patient.such person ccan persevere with husband when going get tough.,………she would be able to withstand inlaw insults…

pUBLIC SPEAKING..

Every husband is proud when his wife comes out to adress the public with good charisma,body language and oratory skills

are you currently dating a teacher? Now grab her tight